21 years ago this lovely lady walked down the aisle and married me. I can say that second only to my salvation, Kim has been the greatest gift God has ever given me.
We met off and on over a couple of years, but when God finally had us in the right place at the right time we both knew with a few weeks that we were meant for one another. The writer of Proverbs said, “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised…” Can I take a few moments to praise the woman God gave to me as a friend, a partner, a lover, a wife, and the mother of my children?
I can say this will full assurance…I have never met a person who loves Jesus like Kim Thweatt. The summer we worked at Lake Forest Ranch was an amazing summer. Of course I noticed her physical beauty, but the glory of God radiated from her and still does. I’ve had people question me…Can she really be that happy? Can she really be that in love with Jesus? Can she really be in private what she is in public? The answer is a resounding YES! I’ve lived with her for 21 years and I’ve watched the joy of the Lord grow day by day. She has had her moments—can you think of anyone married to me who wouldn’t have her moments?!—but I can tell you she is everything in private that she is in public.
How can I describe my bride? I think I’ll borrow from the Apostle Paul and describe her with these words:
Love. Never have a met someone who loves life like Kim. Never have I seen someone who loves her children like Kim. Never have I experienced pure love like I experience with Kim. Above all else—she loves Jesus like no one I have ever met. I do not know a more loving person than Kim.
Joy. I’ll never forget the moment she gave birth to Hannah, our first daughter. It had been a long and hard labor…I thought I’d test that joy for a moment by asking her, “Are you ready for another one?” Her eyes lit up, her smile grew, and she said, “Yes!” I’ve watched Kim take joy in the little things, the big things, and everything in between. She is the only person I know who has been stopped in the Publix parking lot, by a total stranger, and asked, “What makes you so happy?” I’m not sure he was ready for the answer, but I can tell you it is all Jesus. I do not know a more joyful person than Kim.
Peace. We’ve lived a blessed life, but it has come with its own share of trials—the surgeries for our daughters and income issues that come with ministry, but Kim has demonstrated the peace of God in more ways than I can explain. There is just a clear understanding in her heart—God is in control and He will take care of us.
Patience. How can I better demonstrate her patience than to say she has put up with me for 21 years! Kim has a unique ability to wait for God’s timing. She is the least materialistic person I know. She will wait for furniture and clothes because she wants to take care of her family. One years I bought her a dozen pairs of shoes for her birthday because I was tired of seeing the same pair day after day. Kim displays more patience than anyone I know.
Kindness. Wow. Can you name a kinder person than my wife? I’m not blessed with great amounts of mercy, but she is kind with the kindness of Jesus. I do not know a kinder person than Kim.
Goodness. Kim came to know Jesus at an early age and fell in love with Him and never grew out of that! She didn’t sow her wild oats because she loved Jesus. Why doe we see the goodness in her life? She is full of Jesus and it shows. She is good in what she watches, in what she listens to, and in how she treats others. I do not know a good-er (J) person than Kim!
Faithfulness. If you have a friend in Kim you have a friend for life. She is faithful to her God, to her husband, to her children, and to everyone around her. I have never worried about where Kim is or what Kim is doing—she is faithful. I do not know a more faithful person than Kim.
Gentleness. If you’ve been around Kim and I you know I am the darkness—she is the light and I am the cold—she is the warm when it comes to gentleness. Great example—a couple of weeks ago I was chasing KJ through the house, trying to get her in bed—she stubbed her toe on the kitchen door-frame and was crying. I said, “KJ, you stubbed your toe—get to bed.” Kim, tenderly got her to bed, put ice on it, and loved her to sleep. You can guess how I felt when I found out she broke her toe! Thanks God for the gentleness of Kim in the Thweatt household! She is the most gentle person I know.
Self-Control. Once again, let me picture her self-control like this—she has been married to me for 21 years and I’m not dead! Seriously, she is diligent and determined and strong and in control through the Spirit’s power.
Proverbs 31 talks about a woman like Kim and says, “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” I do not have the time or space to do diligence in praising my wife, but this will have to do. I’ve not mentioned her hospitality, her beautiful voice, her ability to lead worship, and her ability to teach, but I will say I am indeed most blessed among men because God allowed me to marry Kim Thweatt. Happy 21st Anniversary Kim Thweatt!